With these mind-blowing, orgasm-inducing techniques, she’ll never need to fake it again.
Listen
 up, gentlemen. We know you want to please your lady (or, if you're 
single, the ladies) in the bedroom and they sure as hell want you to do 
it, too.
But here's the truth: While most guys think they're blowing her mind, more often than not, they're missing the mark.
"Women
 know that most guys want them to reach O-land, and they don't want to 
disappoint," says Dorian Solot, a sex educator and co-author of I Love 
Female Orgasm: An Extraordinary Orgasm Guide. "So all too often, women 
fake orgasms, or just let their partner assume they had one."
But don't settle for disappointing. Stick to these positions. Believe us: Both you and she will know that they work.
- Spooning
If
 your lady doesn't prefer deep penetration, Andelloux suggests spooning.
 It’s also good "if you're into lazy morning Sunday sex playtime. It 
concentrates on stimulation of the front portion of the vagina or 
rectum, which is where the most nerves are located in the genitals." 
Andelloux explains that spooning is pleasurable because it creates a 
tighter fit in the vagina and rectum, so if a woman is looking for more 
stimulation from her partner’s fingers or penis... spoon away.
- Crisscross
According
 to Marshall Miller, a sex educator and co-author of I Love Female 
Orgasm: An Extraordinary Orgasm Guide, this is another great position 
for clitoral stimulation. "Both partners are lying down. The woman is on
 her back and the guy is on his side.
She has her 
legs draped over his middle like a giant X," he says. "Since your bodies
 aren't squished against each other, either you or she can reach down to
 rub her clitoris, what most women need to reach the Big O."
- The Pillow Technique
Many
 sex experts agree that positions often become more pleasurable for a 
woman when a pillow or blanket is added to create a new angle of entry. 
In missionary, Levine says to "put a pillow under her tush to give a 
pelvic lift.
That can also help the man rub her 
g-spot with his penis." Brame says it's a tip that is often 
underutilized, and that you can even use furniture or yoga props. 
"Certain angles for some women won't be comfortable," he says. "Ask her 
what is working for her."
- Coital Alignment Technique
This
 position, created by psychotherapist Edward Eichel, is considered by 
many to be the "greatest sex position in the world." Start in a normal 
missionary position with your full body weight on top of the woman, not 
resting on your elbows.
Move forward so that the 
base of your penis (your pubic bone) is making direct contact with her 
clitoris. Her legs should be around your thighs and you should be moving
 together in a rhythmic, rocking motion. "Some swear that this position 
allows for the closest physical connection and the best clitoral 
stimulation based on his positioning," says Levine.
- Ankles Up
"When
 you're on top of somebody or flat, you can't always achieve full 
penetration," says Brame which is why adjusting her leg positioning 
allows for deeper contact.
"You have to put her 
ankles up over your shoulders. It allows you to go as deep inside of her
 as possible and hit her G-spot." The same deepness can also be achieved
 by her bending her knees or placing the soles of her feet on your 
chest.
- Kneeling
This
 is a simple woman-on-top position where she's (duh) kneeling on an arm 
chair or bed, straddling you. "It's the best way for her to have control
 over penetration and when you both climax since she can slow down or 
speed up, grind and thrust at her own pace," Brame says.
"Even
 women who don't necessarily want to be in control in bed might enjoy if
 their partner grips her arms or hips and helps steer their movements."
- Edge of the Bed
Like
 the Ankles Up position, this encourages deep penetration since she's 
lying on her back with her hips at the edge of the bed, and you're 
entering from under her legs (which can rest on your torso or fall over 
the edge of the bed).
However, it can be difficult
 to get comfortable if the bed is too low and your groin isn't in line 
with hers. "More likely, you'll need to lower yourself or bend over her 
to penetrate fully, but it's sexy on the edge of the bed because it 
feels like you couldn't actually wait to get to the pillow," Brame says.
 Plus, she gets a direct view of the action.
- Cowgirl with a Twist
This
 takes Cowgirl up a notch. She kneels and straddles you, while you're 
flat on your back. The twist is you bend your knees, supporting her 
butt. From here, she can push off your chest to help control as she 
slides up and down against your thighs.
Because 
there's less stress on her legs and she's in control, she can delay your
 climax and get the right rhythm. Plus, you can grab onto her hips or 
thighs and meet each thrust.
- Missionary
According
 to sex experts, women get the most pleasure out of basic missionary 
sex. "Interestingly, when we surveyed women, good old-fashioned 
missionary position was the overall favorite.
There's
 nothing fancy about it, but women said they loved the closeness and the
 intimacy of having their partner's weight on them," says Solot.
But
 in order for missionary position to be most effective, make sure you're
 entering her at the correct angle, says Los Angeles-based sex expert 
and radio host Lora Somoza. "By going in diagonally rather than straight
 in and out there's more friction for clitorial stimulation, which is 
best, since that's how most women achieve orgasm."
- Reverse Cowgirl
In
 this position, the man is either lying down or in a sitting position, 
and the female straddles him backwards facing his feet instead of his 
face. It's a key position that also allows easy access to the clitoris, 
says sexologist and sexuality educator Megan Andelloux.
"Because
 of the easier clitoral access, this position is the one that is most 
likely to facilitate an orgasm because direct clitoral stimulation is 
easy to engage in."
 
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