Fake friends on the other hand are always giving you reasons to back
down or quit; always spreading pessimism and skepticism when you are
climbing the success ladder.
Real
friends accept the way you are. They love the true you and you don’t
have to sell out your nature to roll with them, Whether you are sick or
healthy, poor or rich, mad or sane, stable or otherwise, they always
take you in for who you are..
Fake friends are
very judgy and superficial, always complaining about your physique,
appearance, your clothes and how you do your things among others.
Real
friends always show you tender, loving care and are always first by
your side when you are in need, They keep in touch always and are
interested in your welfare and wellbeing.you simply because they miss
you. Fake friends, though, only show support just before they ask for
help because they need a fertile ground to foster their interests.
Real
friends enjoy listening to you when in conversation - they enjoy time
chatting and are able to restrain themselves to take in what you have to
say. Fake friends however are always in discussions to win or promote
their interests. They don’t enjoy your company.
Real
friends understands the boundaries you set and respect your decisions,
no matter how much they disagree with them. Fake friends often lose
their tempers easily during discussions and always insist on imposing
their perspectives and opinions to the detriment of your own.
Real
friends are empathetic; they care about your experiences, what you go
through, how you feel. Fake friends on the other hand only pretend to
care in order to make you feel like you owe them. They only show
affection when it buys them favours.
Real friends
understand the importance of time alone - they know that sometimes all
you need is solitude to sort yourself out. They respect your space. Fake
friends however feel irritatingly entitled to your time and attention
and get angry when you insist on being alone.
Real
friends are always genuinely interested in the hustle of your passion,
offering their support and showing their pride when you achieve or
succeed. Fake friends on the other hand are always giving you reasons to
back down or quit; always spreading pessimism and skepticism when you
are climbing the success ladder. Even worse, they get jealous and
backbite too.
Real friends know everyone has room
for other friends and so aren’t overly possessive and demanding. They
try their best to get acquainted and along with your other friends for
your sake. Fake friends, though, don't like your other friends and want
you for themselves.
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