5 ways to move on from a break up without bitterness

This article explains how you can move away from the sadness of a heartbreak, rediscover true happiness, and a better relationship.

We all hope to fall in love and never have to get over the blissful feeling.

Several times, however, love disappears and what is left is sadness, disappointment, hurt and pain.

So, how do you move from this negative emotions, and leave them all behind totally?

Know why you had to call it quit

Understand why you had to call it quits

You might not be able to let go when you don’t even know why you had to call it quits in the first instance.

Knowing just why you both had to breakup makes it easier for you to accept reality; and one of the ways to do that is by accepting that you tried all you could to no avail.

It might not make sense now, but soon, it will.

Learn from it all

What’s the point of going through all the drama, hurt and disappointment only to go back and repeat the same mistakes?

You need to learn from this experience – not just the good ones, but the bad, too.

 It might not make sense at first, but soon, it will. 

Give yourself all the time you need

The pain might go deep and hurt real bad but, of course, time heals it all.

Give yourself all the time you need. You should ensure to heal completely.

Stay away from the person

It won’t help if you break up with someone and you keep on hanging around the person all the time.

You have... no, you need to avoid places where you know you might bump into them.

Change routine, unfollow them on all social media platforms [seriously you’ll be hurting yourself by stalking them. You might even want to consider blocking them altogether.]

Give yourself all the time you need, it'll all work out fine in the end

Focus on yourself

Some relationships often hinder your personal growth, as most of the things you’re used to doing are with your partner.

This time, you have nothing else to think about but yourself. Take it as a chance to get back on track, and develop yourself.

Breaking up might just be a blessing in disguise.

Let new people in

Letting go is always difficult, but that doesn’t mean you block out yourself for life.

Don’t shy away from making new friends and allowing the friendship develop into something more.

For some, the only way to get over the hurt is by letting a new person in.

That might just be all you need. Embrace it